In this episode of We’re Not Experts, hosts Tez and Mac lean into their signature style of candid, self-aware banter.

They kick things off embracing the idea that the older you get, the more you realize how much you don't know, referencing Benjamin Franklin via How to Win Friends and Influence People.

The conversation flows through personal anecdotes—like last-minute back-to-school hustle—and observations on how COVID-19 has magnified how fast kids grow up. Then, they pivot to a serious tone: discussing a major Raleigh drug bust involving fentanyl and presses on the impact of criminal activity invading everyday communities.

Next, relationships and trust take center stage as they dissect the nuances of honesty, fidelity, and emotional burden—particularly how constant reassurance can become draining.

They explore loyalty tests, ego, and the importance of transparent communication in a marriage, cautioning about airing personal grievances online.

Toward the end, they touch on broader musings—comedy, free speech, the pitfalls of posthumous “cancel culture,” and how marriage can challenge one’s ego.

Major Points

Recognition of Limits Hosts admit growing older brings clarity about how much remains unknown.

They reference Benjamin Franklin’s humility—being “right 50% of the time.” Parental Procrastination & Time Passing Last-minute school sign-ups and supply shopping.

Reflecting on how fast childhood and time slip away, especially post-COVID.

Local Crime Spotlight A Raleigh drug bust involving fentanyl, meth, cocaine—highlighting how violence and drugs infiltrate familiar spaces.

Truth, Trust, and Relationship Dynamics The emotional toll of needing constant reassurance. Loyalty tests and the importance (and pitfalls) of honesty from the start.

The burden of revealing marital issues publicly vs. private resolution. Ego, Free Speech, and Cultural Commentary Marriage diminishes ego.

Free speech should be protected—“say what you want as long as you're not threatening violence.” Critique of posthumous “canceling”—urge to leave legends alone.

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